Today is a sad day. I had to take my pal Deefer on a final visit to the vets. Diagnosed with Lymphoma just before Christmas we knew that he had a limited time with us and sadly it was time to say goodbye.
A puppy not that old. Did I say he shared the same birth date as me 28th October.
A young dog….and below, probably one of my best photographs of Deefer
In later years I started calling him the “Grumpy Old Man” but he was never that. He was my friend and he did like posing.
Two of the last photographs I took of Deefer, both in Black and White
Goodbye Old Friend.
I’m so sorry for your dog, Mike. They become part of the family, loyal friends, and it’s hard when they leave…
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It was hard Beatrice, but I couldn’t let him suffer.
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Sincere condolences for your loss Mike
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Thanks Adrian, only a dog but so part of the family
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So sad, I know how you must be feeling, we have been through this time ourselves so often in the past. Take solace from the many brilliant moments you had together and enjoy those memories.
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That’s what I intend to do David and thank you for commenting
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Hi Mike. You must be gutted. So so sorry he has gone. Thoughts with you mate. x
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Thanks, Steve.
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So sorry for your loss Mike. I hope this brings you a little comfort https://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm
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It’s a well known poem Daniel but thanks for reminding me about it. I’ve just been over to read it again.
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My condolences…
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Thank you, Peter
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Awwww. So sorry you lost your companion and friend.
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I keep thinking he’s there. Then I realise he’s not but I couldn’t let him suffer.
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Very sorry to hear your sad news. It’s always hard to say goodbye to a beloved and loyal companion.
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It is Jo. but it was time. I had been dreading the day but he went so peacefully…..
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He will meet our Cindy in a nice place, she was a white black Japan Chin and she was an old lady when she passed away.
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He was a real old man and my friend. We did a lot together
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So sorry for your loss, he was a beautiful companion.
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He sure was and that’s how I’ll remember him as a beautiful friend
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sorry to read this sad post Mike, hope your beautiful pictures will help to keep the memories of a wonderful companion Sue
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They will Sue and thank you for commenting
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It’s never easy saying goodbye to a friend, we had to say goodbye to our Jack Russell last year, dementia and heart failure and we have said no more as it breaks our heart every time we have to say goodbye. So sorry Mike, I’m sure he had a good life with you.
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I keep telling myself that. On the one hand I feel guilty but on the other I couldn’t let him suffer.
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Sincere condolences Mike, Deefer looks just like my boy Buddy. Such a loving soul in those eyes.
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It was time Julz. We knew it was coming but he started to go downhill fast.
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Heartbreaking…
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It is Angela.
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Been there…
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Aah gee, Mike. I am so sorry that Deefer is no longer with you. Made me cry and I only knew him through your photographs. He was a wonderful companion and I hope that your memories of him will sustain you in your time of grief. The black and white photos are my favorites. He really was a good looking dog.
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He started to go downhill fast Yvonne. Night before last, during the evening, he struggled to get his breath, he kept waking up from a sleep fighting to breathe. During the night he was worse and just couldn’t settle. In the morning I took him out and he didn’t want to walk and he had hardly touched his food. Then he was struggling to breathe again. I rang our vet at lunchtime. Give him his due he said he was available to come to the house or I could go to him. I feel guilty but I couldn’t let him suffer and he went so peacefully because the vet gave him a sedative first.
I’ll miss him, he’s been part of the family for so long, I’ll never forget my friend and I’ve got the photographs. In some ways I’m glad I decided to take those black and white ones. But looking back when I see the ones of Deefer as a puppy and a young dog I know I did the right thing.
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Of course you did the right thing, Mike. It was the best way. All those photos are really excellent and Deefer as a puppy shows his beauty and a very sweet dog. I hope you’ll get another dog to love- in time. Not one to replace Deefer but one that needs a home. A dog that needs you and one that you need for companionship and to pamper and love.
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I don’t know if we will, Yvonne. But I can always dog-sit my son’s puppy whose a bit of a handful at the moment.
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Those puppies are all so cute. Maybe puppy sitting will ignite a desire to get a dog again. 🙂
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I’m so sorry for your loss, Mike. I remember that gorgeous “favorite” portrait. He was a handsome boy.
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He sure was Jane. Even now I’m looking around for him
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What a lovely animal! I feel for you, I know how difficult that is, so sorry for your lost.
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Thank you for your kind comment
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Sad to lose such a canine friend…lovely shots you have shared with us–thanks. I still miss my old calico cat after over ten years–but I appreciate dogs as well.
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I can always dog-sit my son’s puppy, but it’s not the same
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I get that. There is a neighborhood calico cat who looks much like my deceased pet Mandy–she always comes up to me. We commune and I pet her but no, not the same at all.
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So sorry for your loss Mike, but you’ve done him proud with your photographic obituary.
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Thank you Theresa. He was a good old boy and I miss our walks together. That was my thinking time…..
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What a beautiful tribute to your great companion. I know you took great care of each other. I hope your memories of him are a great comfort.
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They are, but I miss our time together, walks, etc. Even now I find myself starting to do something then realising he’s not there.
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That will happen for a while. I still get a pang when I’m finishing up a jar of peanut butter because our Springer used to lick it clean–as a treat!
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Thanks for the range of photos. He loved you a lot to pose so graciously.
I’m sorry, Mike.
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He always was a poser. Typical Cavalier King Charles Spaniel….
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